5 Nonverbal Sexual Cuing Secrets

Success in dating often has less to do with what you say, and more to do with your nonverbal sexual cues.

You see, the key to dating women is to understand where feelings of lust, desire and attraction originate in the female brain.

Here's a breakdown to help you understand the female psyche a little better.

inside a woman's head

The first, most primal part of the brain is the brain stem, which controls various processes such as breathing, heartbeat and the fight or flight response.

The second part of the brain, wrapped around the basic brain stem and having evolved later, is the limbic brain. Although it sounds very technical, the limbic brain is simply responsible for women's core emotional experiences including lust, desire and attraction. And that's what men are interested in.

Lacking language, the limbic brain is both impulsive and instinctual. It's sometimes called the pleasure center because sexual stimuli that women experience pass directly to it.

The newest part of the brain, the neo-cortex, is considered the rational brain that provides logic and thought, allowing for speaking, planning and critical judgment.

If you tell a woman, "Give me your number," or, "I like you," or, "Let's have sex," you're triggering the rational neo-cortex which consciously blocks your commands and says, "No."

But if you bypass her neo-cortex "guardian" altogether and instead stimulate a woman's limbic brain, you're directly communicating to where her feelings of lust and mating begin. Even if you're overweight or unattractive, if you can tap into this primal part of a woman's brain, she will feel attraction to you.

So how exactly do you tap into this unlimited power?

You do so through your nonverbal sexual cues.

The Resonant Voice
How you say your words is more important than the actual words themselves. How you say your words is what will bypass a woman's critical mind and directly stimulate her limbic brain into feeling attraction -- or not.

You want your voice to sound rich and full, soothing and warm -- in other words, resonant. You don't want to sound whispery and raspy, nasal and thin, or whiny and grating.

A deeply resonant voice spoken with a slow, sexy tempo and volume is sexually hypnotic. With a sexy voice, you can grab a woman's attention in an instant, relax her, make her feel good, and do it all with an aura of confidence and authority. Many women will sleep with a man just because of how his voice makes them feel inside.