After the breakup or the divorce, you may have been trying to set your life straight but somehow you could not. You still long for your wife and wonder how she is now and how she spends her time. Love is a difficult thing to deal with. It could drive you nuts when you lose your wife. There is no fast and easy manual on how to get your ex-wife back. Most of the time, you will be by yourself trying to find out by trial and error what works and what not.
Thankfully, there are couples who got back together after a divorce and you can learn from their experiences. Although each person is unique, there are a number of lessons you need to learn regarding how to get your ex-wife back.
(1) Remain Social and Stay Active
This will prevent depression and will help you deal with the difficulties of the divorce.
By becoming physically fit and active, you also become more confident. When you are confident, you start to think clearly than if you are depressed. Go out with your friends regularly so they can encourage you to pursue your ex-wife.
If you remain solitary, you will only reinforce feelings of loneliness and depression. When you are with your friends and your ex sees you with them, it sends her the signal that you are doing well.
(2) Do Not Dwell on The Past
When you are not with the kids and you are not seeing your ex-wife, you need to look back to your marriage and try to look at the things that went wrong.
What was your role in the breakup? What went wrong? Do not just dwell on what your ex-wife did. Breakup and divorce is almost always due to the actions of two people and not just one. Blaming your spouse will get you nowhere so you better get your acts together and look at how to best deal with the situation.
(3) Date Her Again
There will be times you meet your ex-wife. These meetings may be purely accidental because of your kids or some coincidence.
Perhaps such a meeting is the fruits of your labor in winning her back. You need to enjoy each others company and try not to bring up issues that separated you. In doing this, you are not putting undue pressure on yourself and on your ex-wife to get back again.
Give some time to rediscover each other. Show her that she still has a special part in your heart and you want her back.
When you shall have warmed up to each other again, then you are making the most important step of all - the chance to get your ex-wife back.
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About the Author (text)Teecee Go writes articles focusing on helping people save their marriage and anyone treasure their relationship dearer. Find helpful information at http://www.BreakupCures.com/GetExBack.php
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