Q&A: Approach A Woman In A Bar,
Ask Questions Before You Go Too Far

Yes, it's that time once again: the day we feature your dating and relationship questions. Although we would like to answer each one personally, and with as much detail as possible, the overwhelming amount of inquiries forces us to highlight those that are most interesting to emperorswife.com readers; your e-mail may even be answered in the process.

This week's Q&A focuses on what to do if you're afraid of approaching women, how to quickly find out if she's your type, and not rehearsing your lines before talking to women. David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women, has your answers.

What advice do you have for men who are simply too afraid to approach a woman they don't know in a bar?
Many so-called "men" have a lot of growing up to do... because they aren't conquering the situations that require them to "man up" and take charge of their lives.

An example every man can relate to is the fear of approaching strangers, especially when it comes to attractive women.

So let me ask you...

When are you going to "man up," conquer your fears and start making things happen for yourself?

No one else is going to do it for you, and your life is passing you by as we speak. Eliminate your fears, and along with them, you will eliminate the future regrets you will have if you don't take control now.

Not only will doing this give you tremendous benefits in your life, it will also automatically and dramatically make you more attractive to women.

The more experienced and attractive a woman is, the faster she can recognize a man who has gone through this, because she's already met so many other men that have.

And guess what?

If you haven't, you don't stand a chance with her.

Think about it. She gets hit on 10 times a day, and she knows she'll eventually find a guy who is man enough for her.